If you're really on the verve of swaying those anger on your kids tantrums, play it safe and smart.
For any misbehavior done, apply a time-out on them. When kids start to disobey the don't s rules, carry them to a corner inside the house. Leave them over a timer of 2mins, 5mins, 10mins, 12mins or anytime that suits best. Remind them and let them be by themselves for a while. Just to rethink about those misbehaves done. They might be awkward at 1st, being applied those time-outs. But it's safer and more efficient than hitting or yelling.
However, I personally disagree with parents applying time-outs, -outdoors. They are lots of kids snatchers out there nowadays. These professionals could even snatch kids right under their parents' nose. Kids, when given a time-out outside the house appears like a 'delicious appetizer' for them. You won't want to take risks that will be regretted for your life.
There is another safe alternative for grumpy parents with misbehaved kids like me. Whenever they accidentally do something that might pissed you off, just hug them tightly and utter 'I Love You' till your anger subsides. Then again, explain them of their wrong doings. It is more important to seed those love bonds between a mom and her child during childhood times, rather blooming anger and hatred inside them.
I wasn't a good kid myself during my childhood. Often, cane marks on my limbs, slap marks on my cheeks. Those are just some of the values I choose not to inherit to my kids. Some parents do practice 'soft violence' by caning those naughty kids with a damp, rolled up cloth. It doesn't hurt as much as canes or hangers, but you might accidentally cane their sensitive areas such as eyes, nose, ears or genitals. As parents, I'm sure you won't want to be the cause to any fatal injuries on your kids, so go for a better and safer option to train your kids.
